Life coaching has the opposite problem to most professions. Anybody can print a card tomorrow, which is exactly why nobody believes the card. Your prospective client has spent two years being sold six-figure launches by someone who finished a weekend certification in March, and they have learned to scroll past anything that sounds like it.
So the job on Instagram is not persuasion, it is evidence. Training hours and where they came from. The model you actually use in a session, named, with a session mapped against it. How you measure whether anything changed. When you refuse work and send someone to a therapist instead. None of that is glamorous and all of it is rare.
Knowing where your work ends is your strongest differentiator, not your limitation. A coach who can say clearly what coaching is not, and who visibly sends people elsewhere when something clinical appears, is the only kind a skeptical, capable person will hire. Every idea below is built to make that visible in a feed full of people who never mention it.
What actually performs for life coaches
Naming your method. Saying you use a specific model, and mapping a real session against its four stages, does more for credibility than a year of quote graphics, because almost no competitor can do it.
Publishing your hours. Training hours, coaching hours, supervision hours and where the credential came from. It is checkable, it is boring, and it immediately separates you from the weekend-certified end of the market.
Drawing the line with therapy in public. The moment you list the five things that would make you refer someone out, you become the coach a cautious person feels safe contacting.
Measurement over testimonials. A scaling number at week one and week twelve, shared with consent, beats a screenshot of a grateful message that anybody could have written themselves.
Niching hard and saying so. "I only work with people leaving clinical careers" is a smaller market and a much larger share of it, and it makes every post easier to write.
30 Instagram post ideas for life coaches
Every idea below includes the first slide, the full slide sequence, and a caption starter. Swipe each preview to read the slides.
1.Nobody regulates this. Check me anyway.
Educational
First slide
“Anyone can call themselves a coach tomorrow. Check mine.”
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Anyone can call themselves a coach tomorrow. Check mine.
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Anybody can print a business card and start tomorrow.
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So ask three things before you pay anybody.
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Which body accredited you, and at what level?
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How many training hours, and how many client hours?
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Who do you take your own difficult cases to?
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Anyone can use the title, which means the checking falls to you. Those three questions take a minute and most of the industry cannot answer them. Ask me and I will send you my certificates.
Why it works: Handing the audience a screening test you can pass turns the industry's biggest weakness into your qualifying filter.
“Coaching works forward. Therapy works with what happened.”
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Coaching works forward. Therapy works with what happened.
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Coaching assumes a functioning baseline and builds from it.
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Therapy treats distress and diagnosable conditions. Different training.
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Therapists work on registers with complaints procedures behind them.
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A coach working outside that scope is doing harm, not value.
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If you need therapy, I will say so in the first call.
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The most important sentence in my working life is I think you need a different kind of help. Coaching is genuinely useful and it is not treatment. Knowing the difference is part of the job.
Why it works: Publicly declining work you are not qualified for is the strongest trust signal available in an unregulated market.
“Coach or therapist? Three questions that decide it.”
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Coach or therapist? Three questions that decide it.
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Can you name what you want, or only what hurts?
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Is the difficulty about the future, or about the past?
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Are you functioning day to day, honestly answered?
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Future and functioning, with a goal: that is coaching.
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Anything else, start with a registered therapist instead.
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People agonize over this and it is usually answerable in ninety seconds. If you cannot yet name what you want, that is not a failure, it just means a therapist is the better first call. Ask me either way and I will point you.
Why it works: Answering the exact question people search rather than pitching coaching earns the inquiry from the ones who genuinely fit.
“The five things that make me refer you elsewhere”
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The five things that make me refer you elsewhere
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Any thought of harming yourself. Immediately, without discussion.
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Disordered eating, or an active addiction.
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Trauma that intrudes into the present rather than sits in the past.
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Grief that is still fresh. That deserves proper support.
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Depression heavy enough that goals cannot be set at all.
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This list is in my coaching agreement and I go through it in the first session. It is not a rejection. It is the difference between a coach who knows their limits and one who will happily take your money regardless.
Why it works: Specific, named referral triggers demonstrate clinical literacy that the rest of the market cannot fake.
The work happens between sessions, in your life, not mine.
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I control the process. You control everything else.
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Guaranteed income, guaranteed promotion, guaranteed clarity: none of it.
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What I can promise is a method and honest reflection.
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If someone promises the outcome, ask what happens when it doesn't arrive.
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The louder the guarantee, the thinner the method behind it. I can guarantee the structure of the work and nothing about your results, because I am not the one living your week.
Why it works: Refusing the promise your competitors make is the clearest way to signal that you have something more substantial to sell.
Goal: what do you want from the next fifty minutes, specifically.
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Reality: what is actually happening, without the story around it.
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Options: everything possible, including the ridiculous ones.
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Will: what you will do, by when, and what might stop you.
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It looks simple. Holding someone in Reality is the hard part.
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This is the GROW model and it has been in use for decades. I am showing you the structure because a coach who cannot name their method is improvising, and you should know which one you are hiring.
Why it works: Naming and demonstrating an established framework proves there is a discipline underneath the conversation.
0–5: what happened with last session's commitment.
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5–10: what you want from today, agreed out loud.
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10–35: the actual work. Mostly you talking.
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35–45: options, then one specific action.
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45–50: what could get in the way, and how we'll know.
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People imagine coaching is an unstructured chat, which is fair given some of what is out there. Here is the actual shape of a session. Note how little of it is me talking.
Why it works: Removing the mystery from the session lowers the barrier for anyone who has never bought coaching and does not know what they would be paying for.
Session one: you score the thing out of ten. Just a number.
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We define what a one point improvement would look like.
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Concrete. Observable. Something a colleague would notice.
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We rescore at week six and week twelve.
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If the number hasn't moved, we change the approach or stop.
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A scaling question is unglamorous and it stops six months disappearing into pleasant conversation. If the number has not moved by week six, that is my problem to solve, not yours.
Why it works: Committing to a measurable review point implies you would end the engagement, which is a promise no one selling packages usually makes.
“Twelve weeks, one number, and the client's permission”
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Twelve weeks, one number, and the client's permission
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Shared with written consent. No name, no employer, no details.
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Week one: confidence in leading meetings, self-scored at four.
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The work was preparation rituals and one boundary conversation.
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Week twelve: self-scored at eight, and two meetings led solo.
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Their result. Not a prediction about anybody else's.
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Shared with written permission and stripped of anything identifying. The measure is their own self-score, not my opinion of how it went, which is the only honest way I know to report this work.
Why it works: A self-reported score with a stated method reads as evidence in a category where everyone else posts unverifiable praise.
Because their industry, capital and luck are not repeatable.
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Because an income claim implies a typical result.
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A screenshot proves somebody earned money, nothing more.
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So mine talk about the work, which is what I actually did.
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Every income screenshot you scroll past is claiming a causal link nobody has evidenced. My testimonials talk about what changed in how someone works, because that is the part I contributed to.
Why it works: Explaining the absence of the proof the market expects turns a deliberate choice into an argument against louder competitors.
“Accountability calls aren't coaching. They're a calendar.”
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Accountability calls aren't coaching. They're a calendar.
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Checking whether you did the thing is not a profession.
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You can get that from a friend, for free, on a Tuesday.
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Coaching asks why the thing keeps not getting done.
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Then what you are protecting by not doing it.
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If your last coach only checked in, that wasn't the job.
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A lot of people have paid for accountability and concluded that coaching does not work. It might just be that nobody ever asked them the second question.
Why it works: It names the bad experience a chunk of your audience has already had, which gives them a reason to try again with you.
“500 coaching hours. Here's what that actually took.”
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500 coaching hours. Here's what that actually took.
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125 hours of coach-specific training before that could start.
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Ten hours of mentor coaching, with my sessions assessed.
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A written and recorded assessment against the competencies.
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Then 500 paid client hours, logged and verifiable.
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Renewal every three years, with continuing education on top.
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The numbers behind a credential, because the word certified is doing a lot of unearned work in this industry. Ask any coach for their hours and which body verified them.
Why it works: Concrete, verifiable numbers are the one thing a weekend-certified competitor cannot produce on request.
One session changes a conversation, not a pattern.
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Patterns need repetition across weeks, with work in between.
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So I sell six sessions over twelve weeks, not single hours.
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The price is on the website. No discovery call required.
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If the number is wrong for you now, that is a fine answer.
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My prices are on the website because making you sit through a call to find out is a sales tactic, not a service. Six sessions over twelve weeks, one fee, and a review point at week six.
Why it works: Publishing prices while the industry hides them behind a discovery call removes the friction that stops sceptical buyers enquiring.
A more experienced coach reviews how I am working.
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Where I pushed, where I avoided, what I missed.
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Anonymously. No client is ever identified in it.
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Guidance suggests roughly an hour per thirty-five hours of practice.
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A coach without supervision has nobody checking their blind spots.
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Supervision is standard in therapy and optional in coaching, which tells you something about the industry. Ask any coach whether they have it and how often.
Why it works: Supervision is a professional norm most coaches skip, so naming it both proves rigor and creates a question that disadvantages competitors.
“What's in a coaching agreement, and why you want one”
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What's in a coaching agreement, and why you want one
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Scope: what coaching is, and what it explicitly is not.
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Confidentiality, and the narrow limits on it.
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Cancellation terms, both ways. Mine bind me too.
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How your notes are stored, and for how long.
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How either of us ends it, without a conversation about refunds.
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If a coach does not give you a written agreement, that is a signal. Mine sets out how you end the work as clearly as how you start it. Ask to see any coach's before you pay.
Why it works: A document nobody expects makes the service feel professional and gives the buyer a standard to hold others to.
Ask what model they work with, and listen for a name.
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Ask what they would refer out, and listen for specifics.
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Ask how you would both know it was not working.
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Ask what they are like to be challenged by.
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Vague answers to any of those are your answer.
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Most people arrive at a chemistry call expecting to be assessed. It is the other way round. Take these four questions to every coach you speak to, including me.
Why it works: Arming prospects with questions you can answer well guarantees you win the comparison you invited them to run.
A friend agrees with you. That is what friends are for.
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A friend has a stake in you not changing.
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I have no history with you and nothing to protect.
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Which is why I can say the awkward sentence in week three.
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Most of the value is in that sentence, not the encouragement.
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The most common objection to coaching and a fair one. The difference is that a friend cannot afford to tell you the uncomfortable thing, and I am specifically paid to.
Why it works: Meeting the sceptic's objection on its own terms is more persuasive than any amount of enthusiasm about the process.
“Everything is confidential, except these three things”
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Everything is confidential, except these three things
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Risk of serious harm to you, or to someone else.
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Certain legal obligations, which are rare but real.
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Anonymized discussion in my own supervision.
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Everything else stays in the room. Including from your employer.
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If a company pays, we agree what they get told first.
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Worth checking with any coach, especially if your employer is paying. We agree what the sponsor hears before the first session, and it is usually attendance and nothing else.
Why it works: Corporate-sponsored clients worry about this constantly, and answering it publicly converts the ones nobody else reassured.
Mid-career people leaving a profession they trained years for.
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Not because everyone else is unwelcome. Because I know this one.
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I know the sunk cost argument you are having with yourself.
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I know what your family says at Christmas about it.
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A coach who works with everyone knows nobody's situation.
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Narrow beats broad, for you more than for me. If you are three years into wondering whether to leave the career you trained for, this is the whole practice.
Why it works: A specific niche makes the reader feel recognized, and recognition converts far better than a general offer to help anyone.
Saying no. Finishing things. Switching off at seven.
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Being heard in meetings you're already invited to.
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Put yours below and I'll reply with one question.
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One good question is often the whole intervention.
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Tell me the one thing and I will reply with a single question rather than advice. That is what the work actually looks like, and it costs you nothing to try in the comments.
Why it works: Demonstrating the method in the comment thread lets people experience the service before buying it.
They are outcomes, not behaviors. Lose weight, not walk Tuesdays.
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They rely on motivation, which is weather, not a plan.
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They have no if-then for the first missed day.
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And nobody has agreed to notice whether you did them.
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Pick one behavior, one day, one person who checks.
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Every January the same collapse in the third week, and it is nearly always a design fault rather than a character fault. One behavior, on named days, with one person who notices.
Why it works: It arrives in the search window when the audience is most receptive and is useful without requiring anyone to buy anything.
You have been away, so the pattern has already broken.
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The calendar restarts around you. Schools, teams, budgets.
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You are rested, which January never is.
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And nobody is watching, so there is no performance in it.
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Whatever you were going to start in January, start now.
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The best time to change how you work is when the week has already been interrupted by something else. September does that for you and January does not.
Why it works: Claiming an off-peak season gives you a differentiated post in a month when every competitor has gone quiet.
I'll tell you honestly whether coaching fits your situation.
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Sometimes the answer is a therapist, or nothing at all.
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Message the word chemistry and I'll send some times.
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Thirty minutes where you interview me. Roughly a quarter of these end with me suggesting something other than coaching, which is why I do not call it a sales call.
Why it works: Saying that many calls end in a referral elsewhere makes a free session credible in a market saturated with disguised sales calls.
“Six sessions over twelve weeks. Here's the structure.”
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Six sessions over twelve weeks. Here's the structure.
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Session one: the goal, the baseline score, the agreement.
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Two and three: reality. Usually the hardest part.
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Four: review. We rescore, and we change course if needed.
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Five and six: consolidation and what happens without me.
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Fortnightly, because the work happens between sessions.
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Twelve weeks, fortnightly, with a formal review at the halfway point where we decide whether to continue. Price is on the website. Message if the timing is wrong and we'll look at later dates.
Why it works: Publishing the structure and the exit point makes a package feel like a plan rather than a commitment being extracted.
Weeks two to four: mapping where the yeses were coming from.
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Weeks five to nine: two boundary conversations, both rehearsed.
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Week twelve: evenings back, and the score self-reported at eight.
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Shared with permission and generalized. Both numbers are the client's own, not mine, and the score is the only claim being made here. Twelve weeks is a realistic length for this kind of change.
Why it works: A before and after built from a self-reported score is honest, specific, and impossible to confuse with an income screenshot.
A job that is structurally impossible. That needs a new job.
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A relationship where the other person is not in the room.
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Clinical depression or anxiety. That needs treatment.
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A skills gap. That needs teaching, not questions.
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Not having enough money. Coaching is not a business plan.
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The honest list. Several of these get sold as coaching problems constantly and none of them are. If your situation is on this list, I will tell you in the first call rather than the sixth.
Why it works: Disqualifying yourself from problems you cannot solve makes every remaining claim about what you can do more believable.
Some of it, plainly, yes. The barrier to entry is nothing.
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The tell is always a promise about your outcome.
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Or a course teaching you to coach after six weeks.
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The rest is a trained conversation with a measurable goal.
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Judge by hours, supervision and method. Not by the feed.
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A fair question and the honest answer is that plenty of it deserves the scepticism. Here is how to tell the difference, applied to me as much as to anyone else.
Why it works: Conceding the criticism openly is the only credible way to answer it, and the people searching that exact phrase are ready to be convinced.
Small enough that you cannot talk yourself out of it.
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The next session starts with what happened when you tried.
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That loop is the whole method.
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People imagine coaching is the hour. The hour is where we decide what to test. The two weeks after are where anything actually shifts. Ask me what a first action usually looks like.
Why it works: Describing the mechanism makes the intangible feel concrete to someone who suspects coaching is just expensive conversation.
Stored securely, kept for a set period, then deleted.
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Short, structured, and mostly about what did not get said. You are entitled to ask any coach what they record about you, where it lives and how long they keep it.
Why it works: Showing the record-keeping most coaches never mention signals seriousness and quietly raises the standard the audience expects.
Three posts a week is realistic if you batch them: one method or evidence post, one boundary or scope post, and one lighter engagement or seasonal post. Write the month in a single morning between client blocks, so the schedule survives a full week of sessions.
Hashtags for life coaches
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